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Sunday, March 28, 2010

Iraq-Afghanistan US Troop Millitary Numbers Mixed

While encouraged by the reported draw down of troops in Iraq from 170,000 US Army military in October 2007 to the current level of 83,970 and the planned reduction to 50,000 by the end of August, one has to counter those numbers with the planned increase from 10,000 to 30,000 by year end in Afghanistan and face the reported 350 per cent increase in casualties in Iraq for the first two months of 2009 in contrast to those for January and February of this year . . .85 v. 381.   

In an odd world, at an odd time, one can only hope that any long strides forward toward peace in the Middle East remain unobliterated by backward slides.

I did the math. It looked encouraging . . . until I reminded myself there's more to the math than numbers only.

RMR in Po-Town 

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Thursday, March 25, 2010

*Health Care Reconciliation Bill Passes Senate 56-43

I go away for a few days, and what do we have? Not only a National Health Care Law, but also the passage of the Reconciliation Bill in the Senate by a vote of 56 to 43. What lovely news!

When we were kids there was no such thing as health insurance. Doctors . . . if one could afford to go to one . . . were precious few and often involved trips across the city by bus only to find frequently as a female patient, a doctor with a patronizing attitude. .

So my mother had a list of home cures that rivaled a magicians'. For lesser illnesses, the treatments were as follows: Sore throats: Gargle every half hour with warm salt and water and/or rub on Vicks. And you might also rub Vicks wherever it hurt or was congested. For chest congestion, you could also put some in a pan of water, boiled it, and breathe in the Vicks-scented steam. For medium-bad colds, you could even swallow a teaspoonful before bed.

Years later, when my younger sisters were growing up, the doctor suggested to Mom that it might have done us just as much good if she'd rubbed the Vicks on a bedpost. By that time we could afford a regular pediatrician, so she laughed. But not too hard.

But, we did get better. (If only because to stay ill meant watching our mother worry and fret for a longer time. Life was hard enough without making it worse.)

But for really bad coughs there was always dried mustard, flour and water for our chest. When it was that bad, my mother chose to adopt a kind of half-hearted denial from which state she would command my father, "Biily, you have to make a mustard plaster. I can't do it. I just can't do it." 

So my dad'd step up to the plate with his magic ratios that permitted him to titrate the dose (degree of burn) to the size and age of the child (or adult) and the severity of the cough. Ratios were given in water to mustard to flour. There were 2:2:3 and 2:2:2 and such with the results that the higher the percentage of mustard and the lower the percentage of flour the higher the potency of the plaster. Or vice-versa. He'd announce the ratio. My mother would say, "If you think so."

And so a sticky, wet, dirty-yellow plaster would then be placed over the offending breast-bone . . .  although I do recall them also being placed on the forehead for sinusitis.

But someplace along the way, our family lost my baby brother to mastoiditis. The doctor had told my twenty-seven year old mother just that day that she was nothing but an old mother who worried too much when all the boy had was a common cold.

But tonight, someplace out there, my father's playing his trumpet and my mother's dancing. They're celebrating our new health care law and how the reconciliation bill passed the Senate 56-43. And they're singing, "We don't miss you at all . . . all you other guys. Where were you then? When we needed you? But we got Obama now. And the Dems. And our grandbabies will grow up safer and more strong. Where were all you other guys when we needed you? Where were you then?"

Roberta in Po-Town, Tappin' out rhythm

*For details on the National Health Care Law go to
http://www.harryreid.com/ee/index.php/landing/whatdoeshcrmean




  

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Friday, March 19, 2010

My Theory on Being the Devil's Advocate
Chugging up the road to work this morning, I got to thinking about playing Devil's Advocate, its usefulness, a possibly non-intellectual aspect to its origins, and the questionableness of some of its affects when poorly applied.

I suppose the origins of playing Devil's Advocate were based in a teacher's desire to help a student think logically through a problem to its proper end.  Using careful questioning, the teacher might lead the student to think of things that until that point had been omitted from the student's consideration. Then, at some point, playing Devil's Advocate started to be used as a rhetorical skill intended to move the onus of coming up with the reasonable explanation or answer to the shoulders of the other person without necessarily enhancing learning. 

To that end, when a question was posed, the Devil's Advocate, using something akin to the Socratic method, would respond with another question. And when a statement was made, the D. A. might even counter that statement with a contradictory one . . . even if it went so far as to contradict what the D. A. had suggested not more than two minutes before.  As such, playing Devil's advocate then became a strategy designed to control, manipulate, and frustrate.

Here is an example of a brief dialogue between a rather nasty, controlling person playing Devil's Advocate (D. A.) and a Sincere Innocent (S. I.) :

D. A.: Whew. That pizza really filled me up.

S. I. Sam: Yeah, Izzy makes great pizza.

D. A: But it's expensive.

S. I. Sam: Not really.

D. A.: Have you checked their prices lately?

S. I. Sam: No, I just like their tomato sauce.

D. A: So you don't like mine?

S. I. Sam: I was talking about Izzy's pizza.

D.A: And you don't like my sauce?

S. I. Sam: Well, of course I do. Fresh tomatoes.

D.A.: So now you're going humor me?

S. I. Sam: I'm not.

D. A.: And I'm humoring you?

S.I. Sam: I don't know.

D. A.: Well, you should know.

S.I. Sam: How?

D.A.: Didja' ask?

And so, despite all that verbiage, although we might infer that the D. A. ate plenty of Izzy's pizza, we still have no clear statement as to whether or not the D. A. liked or did not like it. Which is great if the D.A. enjoys being verbal, but essentially prefers to keep his or her views unstated. (While meantime, as the D.A., he or she can enjoy the nasty sense of being in control and driving everyone within hearing distance wacky with illogic and self-centered manipulation.)

As for me, I'll take the Artless Extrovert (A. E.) who can be relied upon to say what he or she means, even if on occasion it is poorly said or unintentionally hurtful. In that way I believe we communicate most effectively: with dignity and sincerity, and, in the process, probably save what might have been wasted time and energy.

So for contrast with the above dialogue, consider the one below:

S. I. Sam: Izzy's pizza's great.

A. E. Vickie: It's filling, but I'd like it better if it were cheaper.

S. I. Sam: Good sauce.

A. E. Vickie: Not as good as mine.

S. I. Sam:True. But satisfying.

A. E. Vickie: Yeah. Filled me up, too.

Roberta in Po-Town, Truckin'
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Wednesday, March 17, 2010

St, Patrick's Day in Poughkeepsie, New York

St. Patrick's day, and a real spring day it was with people out in droves crossing the Walkway over the Hudson River and enjoying Waryas Park along its shore. Every pub in town looked filled with people drinking green beer and edging in for their servings of corned beef and Irish soda bread. In the county today they must have sold thousands of pounds of beef.

There was no place to park so we must have spent a good twenty minutes looking while one of the dancer's mothers wound up paying a gate watcher to let her into an area reserved for a private party.

Usually I'm just half Irish, but for today, I'm fully so. So I followed my niece, the champion Irish step dancer for a bit of a pub crawl--Broessler school of Irish Step Dancing. Precision dancing at its best. And fun.

The kids had fun talking and dancing and chowing down on chicken legs and corned beef sandwiches and drinking diet sodas. The adults had fun just watching them. And the kids sold raffle tickets to support scholarships to help those in the school with talent and need.

We were there for a bit of the crawl. We missed it at Mahoney's, hit it at The Brown Derby, and left it before they went to Mulligan's . . . to get our own servings of corned beef, cabbage and boiled potatoes. Then home.

School tomorrow. For me that is. (I suppose I should say speech-language therapy treatments tomorrow--except people relate more easily to going to school. I do myself.)

And as it's Wednesday night, after the dinner hours things began to thin and I'm home in time to wish you a Happy St. Patrick's Day, hoping that spring is here to stay.

An Irish blessing:

"May the wind always be on your back and the sun upon your face and may the winds of destiny carry you aloft to dance with the stars.”


Roberta in Po-Town

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Saturday, March 13, 2010

Hurt Locker
Personal and in the face. No place and every place. This Iraq War. Horrible.

Last night we saw Kathryn Bigelow's impeccable Hurt Locker. It was seamless, gripping, and heart-rending. A real war movie, but in today's idiom.

Sgt. Matt Thompson, lead soldier of an Explosive Ordinance Disposal (EOD) team is killed in action. When he is replaced by SFC William James, team members, Sgt. JT Sanborn and Spc. Owen Eldridge, with only thirty-two days left to their rotation, see their chances for coming out alive precipitously drop. James, is apparently hooked on the highs of personal risk-taking. Still alive, despite having defused hundreds of IEDs, he arrives with apparently one goal: to defuse every IED in sight . . . and to do so regardless of personal risk. 

Moved indelibly forward by the force of the team's intensely sustained portrayals and the tightly written dialogue of screenwriter Mark Boal, I came away convinced I had witnessed war today and, with it, what it does to its participants. Whether it's Sanborn, played by Brian Geraghty; Eldridge, by Anthony Mackie; or the invincible James, played by Jeremy Banner, each lives out his own personal hell. Meantime the audience through their pain, learns about the bloodied, unclear lines of war.

Whether it was the men simply trying to figure out who and where was the enemy or working to balance risk-taking with the need to survive or the requirements of war with human care, these gray and bloodied lines trickled over me to convince me more with every moment that war in any guise and especially this war, because it is as much ours as anyones, is at best, a waste of young minds, young bodies, a people, and more than one country.

Roberta in Po-Town, Wanting it to end
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Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Bigelow First Woman to Win Academy Award for Best Director

Eighty-something years of Academy Awards for Best Directors before one was to be finally claimed by a woman, Kathryn Bigelow. Almost an embarassment that I had not seen her films. Here she was, awarded the 2010 Academy Award for Best Director, and me, unaware even of her standing in the world of film. I write her name along with that of the movie: Kathryn Bigelow, Hurt Locker

Lovely . . . the sounds . . . they sing to me.

I feel proud, happy for her. I look at her photo. She's noble in appearance. Gracious. Singular. 

A sense a loss that I had not followed her career fleetingly passes through me. And then, the audacity . . . to dare to write about her with so little hard information. 

While I understand that Bigelow eschew's the notion of recognizing the importance of her success as a step for women, from my point of view, specifically because she is a woman, I feel strongly that not to mention her success here would be remiss.

So, Kathryn Bigelow, you do us proud. Your effort and success are appreciated. We are sisters. All of us.

Roberta in Po-Town, In struggle

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Saturday, March 6, 2010

Decreasing the Collateral Damage of the Use of Colored Ribbons
Well, as part of the struggle to wrest back the colors of the world from all their associations with the illnesses and disease in it, I have been thinking more about the beauty of logos. As I have done so, I've also been looking around. One of the interesting things I found was in visiting ezinearticles.com--an effort to keep logos from the public eye. 

In the ezinearticles.com site's discussion of logos, a guideline was proposed to the effect that health logos should not be mis-used by exposing them to general view. Did I misunderstand? Or were they just painting with a broad stroke?

Surely, we don't want DNR plastered all over the place. But what about the Alzheimer's Association's minimalist logo that looks like a bent bobby pin, and reminds the viewer of two interdependent and closely related people or the jig saw questions proposed by the disease. I found it to be both representative of the disease and very effective. And it could be produced inn any color or black or white.

I also liked the Addictions Ontario Logo of three ribbon-line people standing with arms thrown upward in surrender or hope or ecstacy while a 'life-line' leads away from them to underscore the name of the organization. Again representative and effective in any hue.

Even the American Heart Associations logo, a heart split by the torch of learning need not be in red, and I believe I have seen it in black and white.

But enough of that. The key is that a well-designed logo relies on line not color to be effective. And whether it is COPD or a schematic or a more concrete representation of an actual organ as it is with the heart, the use of the logo frees up our colors, brings more light back into our lives, and will surely, in one way or another help to free our spriits to the beauty of colors and in so doing contribute positively to our health.

Roberta in Po-Town, Doodling
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Monday, March 1, 2010

Looking for Fewer Reminders
When I was growing up, it was simple. Brides wore white--although pink had edged in as acceptable. Also light blue was okay--if you were being married in a suit. 

Black was for mourning. Red, white, and blue flew over all of us. And there there was the Purple Heart and your high school colors. Mine were red and blue. Except for black, each of the colors had a positive aspect to it: purity and love, freedom, or school pride.

But not so today. And it makes me wonder.

I wonder what it's like now to grow up in a time when all the colors have been each pre-assigned to represent a specific disease? And heaven forbid if red for heart ever hopped over and used green for kidney or vice versa.

So I got to thinking.

Let's see, yellow, POWs; white duck, pediatric cancer and blood diseases; golden walnut, prostate cancer survival. The list goes on. It covers all of the colors of the spectrum including some of their various shades. Ribbons in an assigned hue are often used as part of fundraising events. (It's cheaper and easier to do than raising the money to hire someone to develop a unique logo.) Sometimes, too, common items are thrown into the mix: the golden walnut for prostate cancer survival or tulips for Parkinson's.

So I'm a kid today. The bride wears white. Hmm. Or pink. Or blue. Purple is now shared with polio. My high school colors represent heart disease and arthritis or prostate cancer.

I turn on the radio.War in Iraq. Snow in North Carolina and D. C. closed. Electrical outages throughout New England. An earthquake in Haiti and a second one in Chile. Tsunamis. More storms predicted.

My dad's out of work.

I don't know if I want to go to the wedding. I'm not sure that purple is for valor. Let somebody else cheerlead.

I don't want to be a fundraiser right now. I want to be young. I want to laugh freely. I don't want to feel forever reminded and responsible.

Life reminds me.

I am responsible.

So I'd prefer it if organizations that want to fundraise were to each design a special knot or logo to represent that particular disease. I want our colors back and our flowers and in some cases even, our animals.  I want kids to be kids; brides to be brides; bouquets to be bouquets.

And when I am not fundraising or contributing, I want to breathe more freely. I don't want to be intrusively reminded by a color or flower or duck. 

By saying this, do I really care less? Will I give less? Or if logos became the thing of the future, would they lift some of the pall in this generous and loving world that already has enough to think about? 

Roberta in Po-Town, Toughin' it out

 
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Here you're suppose to learn about my personal life, my love of learning, the dog I don't have, my house that sits empty on a hill in Port Henry 'cause on the one hand I don't want to sell it, 'cause I love it too much, but on the other hand, I never seem to find the time to get there anymore but I haven't found a buyer. Of course I haven't been looking either. Too busy with Jolt.  Also this site is still under construction so I probably won't get to selling it this month either.  Well, that means, at least I can run up there over Labor Day and party with all my friends and neighbors there which is enough to make me want to hurry up and finish this so I can get ready to leave.

Here I am supposed to write more about myself and think about putting a picture of myself someplace below, except I put the picture in before I did anything else because I thought I was suppose to get rid of the butterfly but it didn't, which is probably just as well because I like the butterfly better.  That's because it doesn't make me feel exposed like the black dress I'm wearing below does.  The reason I chose that picture is because my sister C. thinks it's about the best picture of me I ever had taken.  That's because I'm more mature now and most pictures look awful because they really look just like me.  Of course C. thinks the one below does and all the other ones don't. Which a bit of a trip in itself. But what is there to say? And I'm glad she took it.  R.

Almost to the Apex

8/28/09 - Very exciting. Dust jacket design forwarded for proofing.  Thank you so much Kristi for the image! And John and Nancy for the quotes! And Lorna for sending me Joan--and Joan for sending me Kathi--and Kathi for the design!
                                                                                                                                                     I love you all!
Hugs, hugs, and more hugs:)
R. in Po-Town
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