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Sunday, March 28, 2010
Iraq-Afghanistan US Troop Millitary Numbers MixedWhile encouraged by the reported draw down of troops in Iraq from 170,000 US
Army military in October 2007 to the current level of 83,970 and the planned reduction to 50,000 by the end of August,
one has to counter those numbers with the planned increase from 10,000 to 30,000 by year end in Afghanistan and
face the reported 350 per cent increase in casualties in Iraq for the first two months of 2009 in contrast to those for
January and February of this year . . .85 v. 381.
In an odd world, at an odd time, one can
only hope that any long strides forward toward peace in the Middle East remain unobliterated by backward slides.
I did the math. It looked encouraging . . . until I reminded myself there's more to the math than numbers
only.
RMR in Po-Town
10:23 am edt
Thursday, March 25, 2010
*Health Care Reconciliation Bill Passes Senate 56-43I go away for a few days, and what do we have? Not only a National Health
Care Law, but also the passage of the Reconciliation Bill in the Senate by a vote of 56 to 43. What lovely news!
When we were kids there was no such thing as health insurance. Doctors . . . if one could afford to go to one . . . were
precious few and often involved trips across the city by bus only to find frequently as a female patient, a doctor with a patronizing
attitude. .
So my mother had a list of home cures that rivaled a magicians'. For lesser illnesses, the treatments
were as follows: Sore throats: Gargle every half hour with warm salt and water and/or rub on Vicks. And you might also
rub Vicks wherever it hurt or was congested. For chest congestion, you could also put some in a pan of water, boiled it, and
breathe in the Vicks-scented steam. For medium-bad colds, you could even swallow a teaspoonful before bed.
Years later, when my younger sisters were growing up, the doctor suggested to Mom that it might have done us just
as much good if she'd rubbed the Vicks on a bedpost. By that time we could afford a regular pediatrician, so
she laughed. But not too hard.
But, we did get better. (If only because to stay ill meant watching our mother
worry and fret for a longer time. Life was hard enough without making it worse.)
But for really bad coughs there
was always dried mustard, flour and water for our chest. When it was that bad, my mother chose to adopt a kind of half-hearted
denial from which state she would command my father, "Biily, you have to make a mustard plaster. I can't do
it. I just can't do it."
So my dad'd step up to the plate with his magic ratios that permitted
him to titrate the dose (degree of burn) to the size and age of the child (or adult) and the severity of the cough. Ratios
were given in water to mustard to flour. There were 2:2:3 and 2:2:2 and such with the results that the higher the
percentage of mustard and the lower the percentage of flour the higher the potency of the plaster. Or vice-versa. He'd announce
the ratio. My mother would say, "If you think so."
And so a sticky, wet, dirty-yellow plaster would then
be placed over the offending breast-bone . . . although I do recall them also being placed on the forehead for sinusitis.
But someplace along the way, our family lost my baby brother to mastoiditis. The doctor had told my twenty-seven
year old mother just that day that she was nothing but an old mother who worried too much when all the boy had was a
common cold.
But tonight, someplace out there, my father's playing his trumpet and my mother's dancing.
They're celebrating our new health care law and how the reconciliation bill passed the Senate 56-43. And they're singing,
"We don't miss you at all . . . all you other guys. Where were you then? When we needed you? But we got Obama now.
And the Dems. And our grandbabies will grow up safer and more strong. Where were all you other guys when we
needed you? Where were you then?"
Roberta in Po-Town, Tappin' out rhythm
*For details on the National
Health Care Law go to http://www.harryreid.com/ee/index.php/landing/whatdoeshcrmean
9:44 pm edt
Friday, March 19, 2010
My Theory on Being the Devil's AdvocateChugging up the road to work this morning, I got to thinking about playing
Devil's Advocate, its usefulness, a possibly non-intellectual aspect to its origins, and the questionableness of some of its
affects when poorly applied.
I suppose the origins of playing Devil's Advocate were based in a teacher's desire to
help a student think logically through a problem to its proper end. Using careful questioning, the teacher might
lead the student to think of things that until that point had been omitted from the student's consideration. Then,
at some point, playing Devil's Advocate started to be used as a rhetorical skill intended to move the onus of
coming up with the reasonable explanation or answer to the shoulders of the other person without necessarily enhancing
learning.
To that end, when a question was posed, the Devil's Advocate, using something akin to
the Socratic method, would respond with another question. And when a statement was made, the D. A. might even counter
that statement with a contradictory one . . . even if it went so far as to contradict what the D. A. had suggested not
more than two minutes before. As such, playing Devil's advocate then became a strategy designed to control,
manipulate, and frustrate.
Here is an example of a brief dialogue between a rather nasty, controlling person playing
Devil's Advocate (D. A.) and a Sincere Innocent (S. I.) :
D. A.: Whew. That pizza really filled me up.
S. I. Sam: Yeah, Izzy makes great pizza.
D. A: But it's expensive.
S. I. Sam: Not really.
D. A.: Have you checked their prices lately?
S. I. Sam: No, I just like their tomato sauce.
D. A: So you don't like mine?
S. I. Sam: I was talking about Izzy's pizza.
D.A: And
you don't like my sauce?
S. I. Sam: Well, of course I do. Fresh tomatoes.
D.A.: So now you're going
humor me?
S. I. Sam: I'm not.
D. A.: And I'm humoring you?
S.I. Sam: I don't know.
D. A.: Well, you should know.
S.I. Sam: How?
D.A.: Didja' ask?
And so, despite all
that verbiage, although we might infer that the D. A. ate plenty of Izzy's pizza, we still have no clear statement as
to whether or not the D. A. liked or did not like it. Which is great if the D.A. enjoys being verbal, but essentially prefers
to keep his or her views unstated. (While meantime, as the D.A., he or she can enjoy the nasty sense of
being in control and driving everyone within hearing distance wacky with illogic and self-centered manipulation.)
As for me, I'll take the Artless Extrovert (A. E.) who can be relied upon to say what he or she means, even if on occasion
it is poorly said or unintentionally hurtful. In that way I believe we communicate most effectively: with dignity and sincerity,
and, in the process, probably save what might have been wasted time and energy.
So for contrast with
the above dialogue, consider the one below:
S. I. Sam: Izzy's pizza's great.
A. E. Vickie: It's
filling, but I'd like it better if it were cheaper.
S. I. Sam: Good sauce.
A. E. Vickie: Not as good
as mine.
S. I. Sam:True. But satisfying.
A. E. Vickie: Yeah. Filled me up, too.
Roberta
in Po-Town, Truckin'
7:18 pm edt
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
St, Patrick's Day in Poughkeepsie, New YorkSt. Patrick's day, and a real spring day it was with people out in droves
crossing the Walkway over the Hudson River and enjoying Waryas Park along its shore. Every pub in town looked filled
with people drinking green beer and edging in for their servings of corned beef and Irish soda bread. In the county today
they must have sold thousands of pounds of beef.
There was no place to park so we must have spent a good twenty
minutes looking while one of the dancer's mothers wound up paying a gate watcher to let her into an area reserved
for a private party.
Usually I'm just half Irish, but for today, I'm fully so. So I followed my
niece, the champion Irish step dancer for a bit of a pub crawl--Broessler school of Irish Step Dancing. Precision dancing
at its best. And fun.
The kids had fun talking and dancing and chowing down on chicken legs and corned
beef sandwiches and drinking diet sodas. The adults had fun just watching them. And the kids sold raffle tickets to support
scholarships to help those in the school with talent and need.
We were there for a bit of the crawl. We
missed it at Mahoney's, hit it at The Brown Derby, and left it before they went to Mulligan's . . . to get our own servings
of corned beef, cabbage and boiled potatoes. Then home.
School tomorrow. For me that is. (I suppose I should say
speech-language therapy treatments tomorrow--except people relate more easily to going to school. I do myself.)
And as it's Wednesday night, after the dinner hours things began to thin and I'm home in time to wish you
a Happy St. Patrick's Day, hoping that spring is here to stay.
An Irish blessing:
"May the
wind always be on your back and the sun upon your face and may the winds of destiny carry you aloft to dance with the stars.”
Roberta in Po-Town
10:52 pm edt
Saturday, March 13, 2010
Hurt LockerPersonal and in the face. No place and every place. This Iraq War. Horrible.
Last night we saw Kathryn Bigelow's impeccable Hurt Locker. It was seamless, gripping, and
heart-rending. A real war movie, but in today's idiom.
Sgt. Matt Thompson, lead soldier of an
Explosive Ordinance Disposal (EOD) team is killed in action. When he is replaced by SFC William James, team
members, Sgt. JT Sanborn and Spc. Owen Eldridge, with only thirty-two days left to their rotation, see their chances
for coming out alive precipitously drop. James, is apparently hooked on the highs of personal risk-taking. Still alive,
despite having defused hundreds of IEDs, he arrives with apparently one goal: to defuse every IED in sight . . . and
to do so regardless of personal risk.
Moved indelibly forward by the force of the team's intensely sustained portrayals
and the tightly written dialogue of screenwriter Mark Boal, I came away convinced I had witnessed war today and, with
it, what it does to its participants. Whether it's Sanborn, played by Brian Geraghty; Eldridge, by Anthony Mackie; or
the invincible James, played by Jeremy Banner, each lives out his own personal hell. Meantime the audience through
their pain, learns about the bloodied, unclear lines of war.
Whether it was the
men simply trying to figure out who and where was the enemy or working to balance risk-taking with
the need to survive or the requirements of war with human care, these gray and bloodied lines trickled over me to
convince me more with every moment that war in any guise and especially this war, because it is as much
ours as anyones, is at best, a waste of young minds, young bodies, a people, and more than one country.
Roberta in Po-Town,
Wanting it to end
10:42 pm est
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Bigelow First Woman to Win Academy Award for Best DirectorEighty-something years of Academy Awards for Best Directors before
one was to be finally claimed by a woman, Kathryn Bigelow. Almost an embarassment that I had not seen her
films. Here she was, awarded the 2010 Academy Award for Best Director, and me, unaware even of her standing in the
world of film. I write her name along with that of the movie: Kathryn Bigelow, Hurt Locker.
Lovely . . . the sounds . . . they sing to me.
I feel proud, happy for her. I look at her photo.
She's noble in appearance. Gracious. Singular.
A sense a loss that I had not followed her career fleetingly passes
through me. And then, the audacity . . . to dare to write about her with so little hard information.
While I understand that Bigelow eschew's the notion of recognizing the importance of her success as a step
for women, from my point of view, specifically because she is a woman, I feel strongly that not to mention her success here
would be remiss.
So, Kathryn Bigelow, you do us proud. Your effort and success are appreciated. We are sisters.
All of us.
Roberta in Po-Town, In struggle
8:48 pm est
Saturday, March 6, 2010
Decreasing the Collateral Damage of the Use of Colored RibbonsWell, as part of the struggle to wrest back the colors of the world from all
their associations with the illnesses and disease in it, I have been thinking more about the beauty of logos. As I have
done so, I've also been looking around. One of the interesting things I found was in visiting ezinearticles.com--an
effort to keep logos from the public eye.
In the ezinearticles.com site's discussion of logos, a guideline
was proposed to the effect that health logos should not be mis-used by exposing them to general view. Did I misunderstand?
Or were they just painting with a broad stroke?
Surely, we don't want DNR plastered all over the place. But what
about the Alzheimer's Association's minimalist logo that looks like a bent bobby pin, and reminds the viewer of two interdependent
and closely related people or the jig saw questions proposed by the disease. I found it to be both representative of
the disease and very effective. And it could be produced inn any color or black or white.
I also liked the Addictions
Ontario Logo of three ribbon-line people standing with arms thrown upward in surrender or hope or ecstacy while a 'life-line'
leads away from them to underscore the name of the organization. Again representative and effective in any hue.
Even
the American Heart Associations logo, a heart split by the torch of learning need not be in red, and I believe I have
seen it in black and white.
But enough of that. The key is that a well-designed logo relies on line not color to
be effective. And whether it is COPD or a schematic or a more concrete representation of an actual organ as it is
with the heart, the use of the logo frees up our colors, brings more light back into our lives, and will surely,
in one way or another help to free our spriits to the beauty of colors and in so doing contribute positively to our health.
Roberta in Po-Town, Doodling
11:12 pm est
Monday, March 1, 2010
Looking for Fewer RemindersWhen I was growing up, it was simple. Brides wore white--although pink had edged
in as acceptable. Also light blue was okay--if you were being married in a suit.
Black was for mourning.
Red, white, and blue flew over all of us. And there there was the Purple Heart and your high school colors. Mine were red
and blue. Except for black, each of the colors had a positive aspect to it: purity and love, freedom, or school pride.
But not so today. And it makes me wonder.
I wonder what it's like now to grow up in a time
when all the colors have been each pre-assigned to represent a specific disease? And heaven forbid if red for
heart ever hopped over and used green for kidney or vice versa.
So I got to thinking.
Let's see,
yellow, POWs; white duck, pediatric cancer and blood diseases; golden walnut, prostate cancer survival. The list goes on.
It covers all of the colors of the spectrum including some of their various shades. Ribbons in an assigned
hue are often used as part of fundraising events. (It's cheaper and easier to do than raising the money to hire someone
to develop a unique logo.) Sometimes, too, common items are thrown into the mix: the golden walnut for prostate cancer
survival or tulips for Parkinson's.
So I'm a kid today. The bride wears white. Hmm. Or pink. Or blue. Purple
is now shared with polio. My high school colors represent heart disease and arthritis or prostate cancer.
I turn
on the radio.War in Iraq. Snow in North Carolina and D. C. closed. Electrical outages throughout New England. An earthquake
in Haiti and a second one in Chile. Tsunamis. More storms predicted.
My dad's out of work.
I don't
know if I want to go to the wedding. I'm not sure that purple is for valor. Let somebody else cheerlead.
I don't
want to be a fundraiser right now. I want to be young. I want to laugh freely. I don't want to feel forever reminded
and responsible.
Life reminds me.
I am responsible.
So I'd prefer it if organizations that
want to fundraise were to each design a special knot or logo to represent that particular disease. I want our colors
back and our flowers and in some cases even, our animals. I want kids to be kids; brides to be brides; bouquets
to be bouquets.
And when I am not fundraising or contributing, I want to breathe more freely. I don't want
to be intrusively reminded by a color or flower or duck.
By saying this, do I really care less?
Will I give less? Or if logos became the thing of the future, would they lift some of the pall in this generous
and loving world that already has enough to think about?
Roberta in Po-Town, Toughin' it out
10:52 pm est
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